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Are You Afraid Of Commitment Or Losing Yourself?

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Are You Afraid Of Commitment Or Losing Yourself?

Dr. Ray talks about other possible underlying fears we have regarding committed relationships. This is a great video that unfolds a woman’s story and her true fears of being in a committed relationship. Photo Credit https://www.flickr.com/photos/meddygarnet/ License...

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Why Does It Take So Long To Get Over Someone Sometimes?

Posted by on 9:15 pm in Challenges with Dating, Communication, Fear of losing yourself in a relationship, Healing a heartbreak, Inexperienced/don't know what to do, Intimacy/Connection, Loss of passion, Separation/divorce, Uncertainty about what you want in relationship, Wholeminds Relationship Advice Blog | 0 comments

Why Does It Take So Long To Get Over Someone Sometimes?

Sometimes we are not ready to let go. Sometimes we are unconsciously perpetuating the problem. In this video, Dr. Ray shares with a woman his insights about her struggle with ending a relationship. Photo Credit https://www.flickr.com/photos/geekounet/ License...

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Why Do I Attract The Same Type Of Man/Woman?

Posted by on 9:12 pm in Challenges with Dating, Communication, Fear of losing yourself in a relationship, Healing a heartbreak, Intimacy/Connection, Loss of passion, Separation/divorce, Uncertainty about what you want in relationship, Wholeminds Relationship Advice Blog | 0 comments

Why Do I Attract The Same Type Of Man/Woman?

In this interview with Corey Jenkins, Dr. Ray discusses how unconsciously psychological factors play an essential role when choosing a partner. Photo Credit https://www.flickr.com/photos/benurs/ License...

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How Do You Attract Your Soul Mate?

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How Do You Attract Your Soul Mate?

In this workshop, Dr. Ray delves into a deeper conservation about soul mates and learning how to make the best out of relationships. Photo Credit https://www.flickr.com/photos/h3h/ License...

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How Do You Attract The Relationship You Have Been Dreaming Of?

Posted by on 9:06 pm in Challenges with Dating, Communication, Intimacy/Connection, Loss of passion, Pre-marriage/new couples challenges, Transitional issues/new step kids, school, and community, Uncertainty about what you want in relationship, Wholeminds Relationship Advice Blog | 0 comments

How Do You Attract The Relationship You Have Been Dreaming Of?

In this interview with Corey Jenkins, Dr. Ray talks about how important self-cultivation and connecting to your own sexiness is paramount to attracting others. Photo Credit https://www.flickr.com/photos/33284937@N04/ License...

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How Do You Remain Each Other’s Best Option?

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How Do You Remain Each Other’s Best Option?

Dr. Ray talks about what a couple must do to thrive in our modern world. Photo Credit https://www.flickr.com/photos/mcouper/ License http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.0/legalcode

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How Can Business Women Learn How to Shift Themselves to Attract Better Relationships and Love?

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How Can Business Women Learn How to Shift Themselves to Attract Better Relationships and Love?

Watch successful entrepreneur Shanda Sumpter and Dr. Ray share their thought-provoking insights in this interview. Photo Credit https://www.flickr.com/photos/nattu/ License...

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5 Tips On How To Create Deeper Connection

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5 Tips On How To Create Deeper Connection

By Ray Doktor, Psy. D.   Do you really think you are ready for a deeper connection? Would you be willing to surrender anything to experience that with a lover or friend? Are you sure about that? If you said YES, then let’s jump in! I have experienced deeper connections with people I have met just for a few minutes rather than some people that I have known for awhile. What I have learned is that connection has nothing to do with time but how we show up and what we offer to another. This doesn’t mean that a person who is highly emotional...

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3 Steps For Rekindling Fading Love In Your Relationship

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3 Steps For Rekindling Fading Love In Your Relationship

By Ray Doktor, Psy. D.   Do you feel like your relationship lacks the love that originally brought you together with your partner? Are you no longer affectionate and loving toward each other? Does the relationship feel stuck as if it is more about routines and getting through the day? What if I could give you three steps to rekindle love and to create more intimacy? Step one: Clearing The Old Path And Asking Yourself The Right Questions: The questions below are designed to get you clear on what you want NOW. If there is fear in exploring...

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