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Are You Afraid Of Commitment Or Losing Yourself?

Are You Afraid Of Commitment Or Losing Yourself?

By on Apr 29, 2014 in Challenges with Dating, Communication, Fear of losing yourself in a relationship, Inexperienced/don't know what to do, Uncertainty about what you want in relationship | 0 comments

Dr. Ray talks about other possible underlying fears we have regarding committed relationships. This is a great video that unfolds a woman’s story and her true fears of being in a committed relationship. Photo Credit https://www.flickr.com/photos/meddygarnet/ License...

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Why Does It Take So Long To Get Over Someone Sometimes?

Why Does It Take So Long To Get Over Someone Sometimes?

By on Apr 29, 2014 in Challenges with Dating, Communication, Fear of losing yourself in a relationship, Healing a heartbreak, Inexperienced/don't know what to do, Intimacy/Connection, Loss of passion, Separation/divorce, Uncertainty about what you want in relationship, Wholeminds Relationship Advice Blog | 0 comments

Sometimes we are not ready to let go. Sometimes we are unconsciously perpetuating the problem. In this video, Dr. Ray shares with a woman his insights about her struggle with ending a relationship. Photo Credit https://www.flickr.com/photos/geekounet/ License...

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5 Tips On How To Create Deeper Connection

5 Tips On How To Create Deeper Connection

By on Mar 16, 2014 in Challenges with Dating, Communication, Inexperienced/don't know what to do, Intimacy/Connection, Loss of passion, Pre-marriage/new couples challenges, Sexuality, Wholeminds Relationship Advice Blog | 0 comments

By Ray Doktor, Psy. D.   Do you really think you are ready for a deeper connection? Would you be willing to surrender anything to experience that with a lover or friend? Are you sure about that? If you said YES, then let’s jump in! I have experienced deeper connections with people I have met just for a few minutes rather than some people that I have known for...

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