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5 Tips On How To Create Deeper Connection

5 Tips On How To Create Deeper Connection

By on Mar 16, 2014 in Challenges with Dating, Communication, Inexperienced/don't know what to do, Intimacy/Connection, Loss of passion, Pre-marriage/new couples challenges, Sexuality, Wholeminds Relationship Advice Blog | 0 comments

By Ray Doktor, Psy. D.   Do you really think you are ready for a deeper connection? Would you be willing to surrender anything to experience that with a lover or friend? Are you sure about that? If you said YES, then let’s jump in! I have experienced deeper connections with people I have met just for a few minutes rather than some people that I have known for...

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3 Steps For Rekindling Fading Love In Your Relationship

3 Steps For Rekindling Fading Love In Your Relationship

By on Mar 3, 2014 in Communication, Intimacy/Connection, Loss of passion, Past Unresolved Problem, Pre-marriage/new couples challenges, Separation/divorce, Wholeminds Relationship Advice Blog | 4 comments

By Ray Doktor, Psy. D.   Do you feel like your relationship lacks the love that originally brought you together with your partner? Are you no longer affectionate and loving toward each other? Does the relationship feel stuck as if it is more about routines and getting through the day? What if I could give you three steps to rekindle love and to create more...

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How To Heal A Heartbreak

How To Heal A Heartbreak

By on Mar 2, 2014 in Challenges with Dating, Communication, Loss of passion, Past Unresolved Problem, Pre-marriage/new couples challenges, Wholeminds Relationship Advice Blog | 0 comments

By Ray Doktor, Psy. D   The end of a relationship is fertile soil to learn about us—our True Selves. It is an opportunity to be vulnerable and reflective, while observing our natural reactions as human beings without over-identifying with them. We can recognize recurring, negative patterns and seek healthy ways to change them. We can also remember the beautiful...

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How Could Past Unresolved Trauma Impact My Sexuality?

How Could Past Unresolved Trauma Impact My Sexuality?

By on Feb 24, 2014 in Challenges with Dating, Communication, Healing a heartbreak, Past Unresolved Problem, Pre-marriage/new couples challenges, Sexuality | 0 comments

By Ray Doktor   Throughout evolution, humans have been exposed to a plethora of traumatic events, including violence, rape, incest, assault, natural disasters, wars, genocide, car accidents, and perpetual emotional abuse and neglect. Trauma can temporarily or permanently incapacitate an individual’s ability to cope with or pay attention to both new and familiar...

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