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How Do You Attract The Relationship You Have Been Dreaming Of?

How Do You Attract The Relationship You Have Been Dreaming Of?

By on Apr 29, 2014 in Challenges with Dating, Communication, Intimacy/Connection, Loss of passion, Pre-marriage/new couples challenges, Transitional issues/new step kids, school, and community, Uncertainty about what you want in relationship, Wholeminds Relationship Advice Blog | 0 comments

In this interview with Corey Jenkins, Dr. Ray talks about how important self-cultivation and connecting to your own sexiness is paramount to attracting others. Photo Credit https://www.flickr.com/photos/33284937@N04/ License...

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If You Are Independent And Happy With Your Life, Is It Okay To Not Get Too Serious With Someone?

If You Are Independent And Happy With Your Life, Is It Okay To Not Get Too Serious With Someone?

By on Apr 29, 2014 in Challenges with Dating, Communication, Pre-marriage/new couples challenges, Transitional issues/new step kids, school, and community, Uncertainty about what you want in relationship, Wholeminds Relationship Advice Blog | 0 comments

In this video, Dr. Ray illuminates key points and dating tips for a single mother who already has a busy life. Photo Credit https://www.flickr.com/photos/brinzei/ License...

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When Do I Know I Am Ready To Date?

When Do I Know I Am Ready To Date?

By on Feb 12, 2014 in Challenges with Dating, Communication, Healing a heartbreak, Past Unresolved Problem, Transitional issues/new step kids, school, and community, Uncertainty about what you want in relationship, Wholeminds Relationship Advice Blog | 0 comments

By Ray Doktor, Psy. D. Like most of us, I have been told that I should wait awhile before dating or jumping into another serious relationship after a breakup. Whether I paused with seeing new people or ended up being in a rebound relationship, I ended up learning and attracting what I needed in that moment. There is no avoiding insecurities or denying that I was...

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