You seem to desire the same things, but for some reasons, the conversation turns into an argument. Your partner doesn’t open up and express his feelings. When it comes to particular topics such as sex, jealousy, needs, or family problems, your partner shuts down. You ask your partner not to do something and he continues to now hear you. Your partner gets anxious, raises her voice, or gets easily defensive when you are attempting to rectify matters. It seems like your partner speak a completely different language and don’t understand each other. You are living together but are not talking at all.